I don’t feel any empathy either but I wish more people had a better understanding of the history and development of this situation. I do feel bad for the Russian and Ukrainian people who don’t support this and whose lives are being greatly impacted/taken.
Putin is the wildcard in this thing. He believes he can do a lot of things.
But he misjudged the Ukrainian people. He didn't expect the Ukrainians to fight and didn't expect the Ukrainians to support their government.
I think Russia and Ukraine could have found a diplomatic solution, very similar to Finland’s relationship with Russia. Ukraine joins the EU while agreeing not to join NATO.
The problem is Putin (a Stalin wannabe) wants much more; the re-establishment of the Iron Curtain dividing Europe.