You are either an advocate for gay/trans people or you are not. You seem pretty inconsistent. Surprise, surprise.
You are actually embarrassingly dumb. That has zilch to do with it. If you are gay man, you are still a man. If you are a gay woman, you are still a woman. If you are trans, are you still a biological man or woman? Yes. If you transition, ok. If this was an International Trans Woman Day award, I'd be supportive. It wasn't.
But go ahead, be ecstatic when some guy takes some girl's spot on the girl's softball team or gets a scholarship meant for girls. That's really fair.
Ironically enough, I was actually at The Baton just last week for one of its anniversary events.