I communicated very poorly last night. I did a very poor job of getting my point across, and yes, I said things that were... not cool.
First off, on the "it" thing. That was irresponsible. No excuse for it. It's something I grew up with, and I do realize that it's not ok to talk about human beings in that fashion. I apologize for that.
I understand that I struggle with nuance, and things that I don't "fully understand." It's something I have to work on, for sure. If you're not adapting, you're getting left behind. I get it.
I'm having issues with my son. Like, bad stuff. I should have just let things go yesterday. I'm not thinking clearly.
I actually attended a gay wedding in the summer of 2020. My wife's cousin. It was awesome. I really have no problem with gay or trans or anything else. The bathroom thing...well, I still think that it should be gender specific. But I'm not willing to go into that again.
I'm sorry to anyone that I offended. And I want no hard feelings. I get that Spark hates me, and so be it. It is what it is.